Now that stress from my silly day job has died down and I’ve finished my taxes, I can rejoice in the many great writing opportunities that have come my way over the last few weeks. You may have noticed some new links in the sidebar lately, which represent two new sites I’m writing for and a book I’m reviewing:
The fantastic people at AskDanAndJennifer.com have asked me to become a regular contributor. In addition to an amazing website, they have some impressive credentials under their belt, which I think makes it safe to assume other great things under their belt. I will soon be writing a series called “How To Be Sexy From The Inside Out.”
I have also been asked to write for HoneyAndLance.com, which is a very interesting and honest dialogue about dating. At the same site you can find the likes of You Want A Player Boyfriend, Trust Me and Why Ladies Really Hate Players. When I saw that Lance wrote an article called 10 Signs You Might Be A Complete Douchebag, my heart skipped a beat. I’m as smitten as my cold twisted heart can let me be.
One of my fellow bloggers over at Baggage Reclaim has recently published a book called Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, which I will be reviewing shortly. You can check out the site and buy the book if this summary hits a bit close to home:
It is the first in a 3-part e-book series which uncovers the phenomenon of women who love emotionally unavailable men. It focuses on Mr. Unavailable and explains why so many women around the world get sucked in by this man who can’t connect with his emotions, blows hot and cold, can’t commit to being with you, can’t commit to not being with you, and consistently under-delivers on his promises and your expectations. This is more than ‘He’s just not that into you’ - This is about men who fall back on or default to certain women so that they can have their ego massaged and get the fringe benefits of a relationship whilst reducing the woman’s self-esteem.
From what I’ve skimmed so far the writer looks pretty sharp. I think it’s safe to assume this is one of those books where many of the readers wish this book had existed years ago. And the writer is British. Hurrah! You know how much I love the British with all their blimeys and bollocks and cheeky grins.
Stick around for lots of exciting things to come. Hopefully one of these days it will be me.






Taoist Biker | 28-Mar-08 at 8:00 am | Permalink
Kickass! Congrats!
Morphyne | 28-Mar-08 at 1:02 pm | Permalink
oleeey!
ChelseaLI. | 28-Mar-08 at 6:27 pm | Permalink
Just finished all your archives, am in awe.
Looking forward to new posts
Lance | 28-Mar-08 at 7:15 pm | Permalink
Geminis will soon rule the world!!!
leendadll | 28-Mar-08 at 7:57 pm | Permalink
yeah… I’d have to say that book sounds right up my alley. my “mantoy” gave me a “We’re Done” call 3 weeks ago, then pounded down my door - looking for sex 1 week ago. Luckily, I was still pissed and not in the mood to deal with the drama (cause the sex was great so though I don’t want it now - I don’t want to completely cut out the option either).
Congrats on all the great connections, contacts & opportunities!
Becca | 28-Mar-08 at 8:06 pm | Permalink
Congrats on the new writing assignments. I checked out Honey and Lance. I guess it’s over my head. I still prefer the nice guy over the player.
Lance | 28-Mar-08 at 10:02 pm | Permalink
Becca. You want secretly want a badboy.
Becca | 28-Mar-08 at 10:45 pm | Permalink
Lance, no. No I don’t. Check out my blog sometime and you’ll see why. I had the so called bad boy once. For two years. To make a long story short, it ended just as horribly.
Kelly | 29-Mar-08 at 4:45 pm | Permalink
Wow, Vix Im so happy for you and your upcoming sucesses, but I fear your growing schedule will mean that we may NEVER find out how the cowboy twosome and the continuation of the tub trio ends. That makes me soo sad. I am dying to finish them both, and now I guess we will never know how they end, (well I know how they ended I just wanted all the juicy details)
Lance | 29-Mar-08 at 8:54 pm | Permalink
@Becca: I’m just messing with you. Hot goth kitten? I like the sound of that. Rawr. I’ll check out your site and leaves comments, that is if you can stand being scandalized by an icky player.
Lance | 29-Mar-08 at 8:57 pm | Permalink
Vixy, thanks for the love, you’re the shit. In my fantasies, I bequeath you endless money shots, all Peter North in quality/quantity.
Becca | 29-Mar-08 at 9:05 pm | Permalink
Lance, I can handle it. It’ll be biggest thrill I’ve had all week.
But I gotta warn you, I’m a lot on the neurotic side. Consequences of thinking too much.
Becca | 29-Mar-08 at 9:06 pm | Permalink
Oh, Vix, I’m sorry for carrying on a personal convo in the comments section. Feel free to flog me.
Sensitive Man | 01-Apr-08 at 11:19 am | Permalink
Heyy!!.. Congrats Vix!!
Have fun and enjoy it.. Make bucks and more.
But don’t forget us and our love for more stories about Handsome and Pretty Twosome, and the Cowboy Twosome.