Ask Vix: Is It Okay To Date His Best Friend?

Since the beginning of this blog readers have emailed me relationship and sex questions. Lately so many readers have asked me for advice that I made an official Ask Vix page and turned this into a regular feature. Over the weekend I played catch-up with my emails, so here is another recent inquiry from a regular reader:

I need a neutral third party to help me figure this one out. So here’s the scope…I have been lusting over this guy (let’s call him David) for quite some time. About a couple of months.

I met David because of John. Now John is his best friend. I knew John way back in high school and we rekindled our friendship through the magic of myspace. I met up with John at a bar and that’s how I was introduced to David. I ended up having sex with John that night. It was a one time thing, it wasn’t very good, and it was the end of that love affair. So a couple of months go by and David is calling me and trying to get a friendship going with me. I don’t mind this. I see no problem in making a new friend. He seemed like a very cool guy when I first met him.

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