Many readers have told me about some rockin’ songs that went straight onto my “sexy” playlist. Other readers have asked me for some good music for sex, so here is my list. It’s got a wide range depending on mood/pace and whether you like pop music or prefer to kick it old school. Some songs are better suited to getting you in the sexy mindset, others serve well as a background music while bumpin’ uglies.
Note: this is music for fucking, not for making love. That’s an entirely different playlist.
Add your favorite songs in the comments. This is a community of like-minded perverts after all.
Basement Jaxx Get Me Off
Kelis Bossy
Kelis Milkshake
Nelly Furtado Maneater
Nelly Furtado Promiscuous Girl
*Ciara Goodies
Pussycat Dolls Don’t Cha
*Pussycat Dolls Buttons
Beyonce Naughty Girl
Destiny’s Child Lose My Breath
*Britney Spears I’m a Slave For You (remember the good ol’ days of Hot Britney?)
Britney Spears Toxic
Britney Spears/Madonna Me Against the Music
Madonna Erotic
Dave Matthews Crash Into Me
Meredith Brooks If We Kissed
Portishead Undenied
Portishead Humming
*Garbage #1 Crush (Romeo & Juliet Soundtrack)
Yeah Yeah Yeahs Rich
Curve Chinese Burn
Velocity Shift Overseer (Blade: Trinity Soundtrack)
Crystal Method Weapons of Mad Distortion (Blade: Trinity Soundtrack)
*Lil’ Jon Shake That Monkey
The Fugees Killing Me Softly
Janet Jackson That’s the Way Love Goes
En Vogue Free Your Mind
Salt-n-Pepa Let’s Talk About Sex
Color Me Badd I Wanna Sex You Up (I stand by my music selection, damnit)
Silk Lick You Up and Down
Link Sex Down
LL Cool J Hey Lova
Keith Sweat Nobody
Nelly Hot In Here
Heart Crazy on You
AC/DC You Shook Me All Night Long
Jimi Hendrix Foxy Lady
Lenny Kravitz Lady
Rolling Stones Honky Tonk Woman
Metallica Enter Sandman
Metallica Wherever I May Roam
Metallica Fuel
Korn Freak on a Leash
NIN Closer (the all-time best FUCK ME HARDER song)
*these are especially good for performing a striptease






AS | 29-Dec-06 at 6:02 pm | Permalink
“Fuck Forever” - Babyshambles
inkedweezel | 29-Dec-06 at 6:28 pm | Permalink
The entire “What’s Goin On” CD by Marvin Gaye.
Bob | 29-Dec-06 at 7:50 pm | Permalink
How about Wagner’s “Flight of the Valkyries”
Tchaikovsky’s “1812 overture” ?
inkedweezel | 29-Dec-06 at 11:14 pm | Permalink
Ha! William Tell Overture! Classic!!!!!!
Craig | 30-Dec-06 at 12:08 am | Permalink
All of these pieces can be interpreted as “fucking” material. There are rises and sweet falls… but there is definitely a drive throughout.
Brahms - Scherzo in C-Minor for violin and piano
Antonio Vivaldi - Concerto No.2 in G-Minor, “Summer”, (Presto mvmt)
J.S. Bach - Two-Part Invention in D-Minor (for keyboard/piano)
Franz Schubert - Quartet in D-Minor, Allegro (perhaps not to everyone’s taste: was the centerpiece for the Sigourney Weaver film “Death and the Maiden” - beautiful music nonetheless with a distinctive drive)
Frederic Chopin - Impromptu No.4 In C-Sharp Minor (for solo piano)
Camille Saint Saens - “Danse Macabre” (arranged for orchestra or for solo cello)
The 5.6.7.8’s - Fruit Bubble Love
Apollo Smile - Thunder Box (only available on the Days of Thunder soundtrack)
The Doors - Five To One
Dr. Octagon - Real Raw
The Hep Stars - Farmer John (so rare, rockabilly, fast and totally silly, who knows if I’m the only one :>)
Shasta | 30-Dec-06 at 12:19 am | Permalink
Pussycat Dolls Buttons is definately a good song to do a strip tease to!
inkedweezel | 30-Dec-06 at 4:21 am | Permalink
Like the Doors song……..Hmmmmm how’bout L.A. Woman?? Or perhaps “Roadhouse Blues”??
noname | 02-Jan-07 at 3:54 am | Permalink
check out “Whole lotta Love” by Led Zeppelin. Would like to know what you people think about it.
Dimples | 02-Jan-07 at 8:37 am | Permalink
What about Bel Biv Devo Do Me or Petey Pablo Freak-a-leak!!!
Nikky | 02-Jan-07 at 6:50 pm | Permalink
Um. Hello?? Not one single solitary mention of Prince?? All I have to say is “Do Me, Baby” is a FANTASTIC song to fuck to… And, that’s just one of many!! :o)
Tracey | 14-Jan-07 at 1:20 am | Permalink
Peaches - Father Fucker
beajerry | 05-Apr-07 at 11:52 am | Permalink
Great songs! I have some too:
Al Jarreau/Bob James-Since I Fell For You
Ali Farka Toure-Ai Du
Aloe Blacc-What Now
Amon Tobin & Kid Koala-Untitled
Anjali—Misty Canyon
Aphex Twin—Windowlicker
Art Of Noise—Moments In Love
Atlanta Rhythm Section—Spooky
Atomico—Bittersweet
Balligomingo—Heat
Basement Jaxx—Get Me Off
Bat 67—I Want You To
Bitter:Sweet—Don’t Forget To Breathe, Heaven, Moody
Bjork—Hidden Place
Black Eyed Peas—Sexy
Boozoo Bajou—Astral Traveling
Brazilian Girls—Homme, Lazy Lover, Don’t Stop
Buscemi—Midnight Sessions
Iron & Wine—Burn That Broken Bed
The Cars—Moving In Stereo
Chris Isaak—Wicked Game, Baby Did A Bad Bad Thing, Blue Spanish Sky
Chungking—Following, Making Music
Cibo Matto—Sugar Water
Daft Punk—Something About Us
Dead Can Dance—The Ubiquitous Mr. Lovegroove
Def Leppard—Love Bites
Dirty Old Ann—Turn Me On(Filth Dub)
Dirty Vegas—Days Gone By
DJ Logic—Spider Dance
DJ Shadow—Midnight In A Perfect World
Dave Matthews Band—Crash Into Me
Deftones—No Ordinary Love
Don Felder—All Of You
Donald Fagen—True Companion
The Doors—The Spy
The Dust Brothers—Marla
Dusty Springfield—Son Of A Preacher Man
Echo & The Bunnymen—Lips Like Sugar(Way Out West Remix), Killing Moon
Elysian Fields—Black Acres
Enigma—Shadows In Silence, Sadeness, Smell Of Desire
Erikah Badu—On And On, Next Lifetime
Esthero—Beautiful Lie, My Torture, If Tha Mood
Etta James—Let’s Burn Down The Cornfield, A Sunday Kind Of Love
Faze Action—Close Your Eyes
Fiona Apple—Criminal, Slow Like Honey
Fluke—Baby Pain
Frou Frou—Let Go
Garbage—#1 Crush
George Michael—Father Figure
Golden Boy with Miss Kitten—Rippin Kitten
Goldfrapp—Train, Oh La La, Twist, Strict Machine, Slippage, Slide In, Ride A White Horse, Let It Take You
Gotan Project—Amor Porteno
Handsome Boy Modeling School—The Truth, I’ve Been Thinking
Hooverphonic—Mad About You
INXS—Devil Inside, Never Tear Us Apart
It Dreams—Feel It
Janet Jackson—Throb, That’s The Way Love Goes
Jem—Come On Closer, Falling For You
Jessica Vale—Disco Libido
Joi—Lick
Jose Nunez—Bilingual(Dirty Mix)
Kate Bush—Running Up That Hill, The Sensual World
Kylie Minogue—Slow, Chocolate
Latin Playboys—Lemon’n'Ice
Lesbians On Ecstacy—Tell Me Does She Love The Bass
Leftfield—Inspection
Lords Of Acid—I Sit On Acid, Lover
Lovage—Pit Stop, Anger Management, Sex(I’m A), Strangers On A Train, Lifeboat, Book Of The Month, Stroker Ace, Archie & Veronica, Koala’s Lament, Lies and Alibis
Madeleine Peyroux—Between The Bars
Marcy Playground—Sex And Candy
Martina Topley-Bird—Anything, Sandpaper Kisses
Marvin Gaye—I Want You, Feel All My Love Inside, I Wanna Be Where You Are, Come Live With Me Angel, Sexual Healing, You Sure Love To Ball, Let’s Get It On
Massive Attack—Karmacoma, Angel, Teardrop, Intertia Creeps, Black Milk, Mezzanine, Weather Storm
Melissa Etheridge—I’m The Only One
Melissa Ferrick—Drive
Moloko—Fun For Me
Morcheeba—Friction, The Sea, Part Of The Process, Undress Me Now, Fragments of Freedom, Trigger Hippie, Tape Loop
Mz’ Diamond—Nasty Girl Wet, Passions Of Love
Nightmares On Wax—Les Nuits, Nights Interlude, Passion, Flip Ya Lid, Damn
Outkast—Funky Ride
Pink & Peaches—Oh My God
Paula Cole—Feelin’ Love
Peaches—F**ck The Pain Away, AA XXX, Lovertits, Set It Off
Pet Shop Boys—West End Girls
Peter Gabriel—In Your Eyes
Poe—Hey Pretty, Fingertips
Pole Folder—Abrasion
Portishead—Dummy(whole album), Humming, Only You, Undenied, Cowboys
Pulp—Seductive Barry
Rabbit In The Moon—Time Bomb
Rare Earth—Come With Me
Robbie Robertson—Golden Feather, Broken Arrow, Somewhere Down The Crazy River, Take Your Partner By The Hand
Robert Plant—Big Log
Sade—Smooth Operator, The Sweetest Taboo
Sarah Fimm—Be Like Water, Lioness, In The Red, Sexual Animals, Virus
Sarah McLachlan—Ice Cream, Possession(Rabbit In The Moon Remix)
Si*Se—More Shine
Sia—Breathe Me
Smoke City—Mr. Gorgeous (and Miss Curvaceous)
Sneaker Pimps—6 Underground, Spin Spin Sugar
Supreme Beings Of Leisure—Rock And A Hard Place, So Much More, Never The Same, Last Girl On Earth, Truth From Fiction, Nothin’ Like Tomorrow, What’s the Deal
Suzanne Vega—Caramel
Telepopmusik—Breathe
The Temptations—Just My Imagination
Tiga—Hot In Herre
Tom Neville—Just F**k
Tori Amos—Rasberry Swirl, Juarez
Tricky—Overcome, Hell Is Around The Corner, Pumpkin, Aftermath, Suffocated Love, You Don’t, Hollow, The Love Cats
Underworld—Dark & Long
Malcolm McLaren—About Her(Kill Bill Soundtrack)
Violent Femmes—Color Me Once
Xlover—Faking It
Zap Mama—Bandy Bandy
Zero 7—Destiny, Distractions, In The Waiting Line, Passing By, In Time
LO | 15-Aug-07 at 5:30 pm | Permalink
Closer is the only song I’d voluntarily play during sex. I maintain the opinion that the sounds of sex are better than any music out there.
But, I do enjoy hearing Pussy by Lords of Acid if she’s willing to give me a tease.
A Loyal Reader | 22-Aug-07 at 5:26 pm | Permalink
I’m not so much into rap, but there are a few rap songs that are good fuck music. If I could remember some off of the top of my head, I’d totally put them, but… I’m sure if people think about it they’ll know what songs I may/may not be talking about.
amanda | 14-Sep-07 at 9:34 am | Permalink
blonde redhead- misery is a butterfly album
Shannon Gail | 22-Sep-07 at 9:35 pm | Permalink
Mmm. . .anything by Linkin Park turns me on =]
A lot of stuff by Maroon 5.
Red Hot Chili Peppers, Nickelback, and Nelly Furtado.
P.S. Great site. Thanx a lot. I know my boyfriend would thank you!
buxomgirl | 03-Nov-07 at 10:46 pm | Permalink
My favorites are:
Holidae Inn-Chingy
Drop it like it’s hot-Snoop Dogg
Sara | 27-Nov-07 at 7:10 pm | Permalink
“I Want You (She’s So Heavy)” by the Beatles. Gets me wet every time — great for a slow striptease, and believe me, I speak from experience there.
Aki-Hime | 31-Dec-07 at 2:42 pm | Permalink
“When the lights go out” by the black keys…I first heard it on the “Black Snake Moan” preview, and it just has that beat…^_~
Henna | 01-Jan-08 at 6:40 pm | Permalink
Animals - Nickelback
amber | 19-Jan-08 at 7:24 pm | Permalink
david banner- play
oh. my. GOD. this IS the dirtiest song ever. and i LOVE it. its irresistable. no joke. this may only be for EXTREME freaks. but who knows, i didnt before i listened to it ;P
your site is amazing btw, cant wait to try some things.
Brian | 02-Feb-08 at 11:04 am | Permalink
Def Leppard - Excitable
I was in college at the time and used this song to create a conditioned response like Pavlov’s Dog (The dog would salivate when he saw food, by ringing a bell when the dog was fed - it began to salivate just from the bell ringing.) I played the opening of the song and got her (my now wife) to cum right at the part when the girl screams at the end of the intro. After doing this for a while, I could get her to cum uncontrollably just by playing the introduction and not even touching her at all. Great Sex is in the mind.
Morphyne | 08-Feb-08 at 3:49 pm | Permalink
I have two songs I love to fuck to, and I suggest them to ANYONE who wants sensual with raw need…
Play - David Banner
Doing it Well - LL Cool J (Gets me hot just thinking about it… :D) Whoo!
**Walks off mumbling in a sing song voice** Fuckity fuck, fuckity fuck…
N.Wood | 15-Feb-08 at 2:43 am | Permalink
Martina Topley Bird and Tricky!
mocca | 20-Feb-08 at 12:16 am | Permalink
Shakira & Beyonce - Beautiful liar
surprised that no one said it before…
becky | 26-Feb-08 at 7:09 pm | Permalink
what about AKON i wanna fuck you or smack that!! or no diggety!!
IrishAngel | 02-Mar-08 at 6:32 pm | Permalink
When you’re in for a bit of a session - the entire Outkast Speakerboxx/Love below album - both discs in order. Great rythyms, and builds up nicely
Serena | 08-Mar-08 at 6:03 pm | Permalink
I can’t believe no one has mentioned the first song that my love and I fucked to.
She Wants Revenge - Tear you Apart
The chorus gets stuck in my head all the time, which leads to great rough sex after a long day at work thinking those lines.
Becca | 11-Mar-08 at 1:52 am | Permalink
NIN, most definitely.
Here’s a few of my favorites: INXS-Need You Tonight, A Perfect Circle-Thinking of You, Placebo-Running Up That Hill, Puscifer-Rev. 22:20 (Must hear, it’s all about sex!), Type O Negative-Christian Woman
Soph | 30-Apr-08 at 6:11 am | Permalink
TV On The Radio - Wolf Like Me.
So SO good. Such an awesome beat.
“Say, say my playmate, won’t you lay y’hands on me..”
Tash | 04-May-08 at 5:57 am | Permalink
Ludacris - What’s your fantasy (I wanna lick lick lick lick you from your head to your toes..)
Candy Shop - 50 Cent ….Coz I like to lick the lollypop
Alyse | 29-May-08 at 9:14 pm | Permalink
Wow I’m suprised no one said my all time favorite stripping song:
Pour Some Sugar on Me by Def Leppard
Just | 30-May-08 at 8:25 pm | Permalink
My #1 favorite disc to get busy with:
David Sylvian & Robert Fripp’s Damage.
60 minutes of live performance, back and forth between slow sensuality and heavy bass-grooves - the mood changes are exactly the secret weapon - and Sylvian’s crooning voice throughout.
There’s a studio album of the same material, but the live one smooths it out into a drastically more sensual experience, and the flow continuity is very excellent for “the task at hand.”
Absolutely the first one in the player when someone new comes over to, like you said, not “make love.”
jasmine | 03-Jul-08 at 11:21 pm | Permalink
candy shop - 50 cent
amusement park - 50 cent
grippin - ludacris
i wanna fuck you - akon ft snoop dogg
these songs get me off so fast
The Mechanic | 06-Sep-08 at 9:01 pm | Permalink
E-Rotic - I’m Horny
Enigma - Temple of Love (and the whole Erotic Dreams CD)
Liz Phair - H.W.C. (Hot White Cum)
Prince - Erotic City
Doodlebug | 11-Nov-08 at 11:18 pm | Permalink
I don’t know why, but this song ALWAYS makes me just want to throw my virginity at my boyfriend… >_
superchuckholly | 30-Mar-09 at 6:13 pm | Permalink
Wait…”Goodies” by Ciara? That doesn’t make any sense! It’s about how you CAN’T get her goodies!