Casual Sex vs Relationship Sex

So many people have asked me which is better, casual sex or relationship sex?

Well I like both! They are entirely too different for one to be better than the other. Both can be awesome, both can suck. Part of it is you get out of it what you put into it–although of course you can only do so much if your partner is just. pitifully. embarassingly. bad. In this case of course hopefully he isn’t your boyfriend because you ain’t gonna rush home to THAT.

I have had lots of casual sex with many types, ages, and races of guys. I’ve also had lots of relationship sex–roughly five years’ worth spread among three serious boyfriends.

Pro’s and con’s are mixed in. I just typed these out as I thought of them. Often the good and the bad are the same. Weeee, that’s what makes sex so damn interesting.

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